Loneliness And Being Alone Are Two Different Things

Usually we are so busy in work that we forget to seek the treatments for the most common problems of ours. We work with different people at times. We meet and depart. Some persons become prime part of life. The changing requirements of work and changed social structures usually make us feeling loneliness and sometimes we like to be alone.

Read here more

I was feeling loneliness and it was pretty horrible in the morning. Loneliness is a sort of disorder. One can feel loneliness among crowd of people and that's serious problem. Sometimes we want to be alone for ourselves.

But you can always transform yourself from the state of loneliness (pessimism/negatism) to alone (Optimism/positiveness).

It's not easy for sure. There could be certain side effects for the same. For example, You might feel difficult at mixing up with people. Again that could be a separate problem.

Ok, what's about the spiritual facts of self realization or Karma yoga theory?

Just love everybody everything every moment. Know yourself..it's the most important.....

Yeah.... I feel great now....:-)

Loving 2 All,
Sudhir

Friends... Happiness....World

If you make someone unhappy, you also feel unhappy... nothing is more important than friendship....but since nothing is more important ..it means everything can be done for friendship which is good..and usally great things happen when we are together. If someone insists... insistence does happen in friendship.... pls mind it... !! if someone gives up one's insistence today..may be it would become dangerous tomorrow.....
Expectations do happen in friendship and relationship. how to deal with them is an art. some people are pretty poor and throw away soon and some reacts and find their way either..but some are really the best who don't make it harder to other person to meet and even other person fails they never mind. but this best category is really rare. and in fact such people are really sort of saints.
Ok, what if your friend is insisting you to meet. I guess, if everything is ok and he/she is really caring about you, he/she would come. and if your friend is not coming even after certain instances of invitations, then you should try to know the reason. And if you didn't find the reason then it becomes tough because:

1. You are so emotionally attached with that person and you feel that he/she is ignoring.
2. You contemplate in yourself what's the possible reason why he/she is hiding anything if it's there.
3. You develop a doubt in your mind if you were ever important for him/her.
4. And since it's a new change in your habitual routines. You don't find your friend with you in various matters and it makes you unstable.
5. etc...

Resolution:

1. Do NOT involve too much in any one.
2. Never end any relationship. Never go from your friend's life. Even never think of that.
3. Never make it harder for anyone to meet.
4. If he/she is going, don't let him/her go. Try to sort out in the best possible way.
5. If he/she goes and your all efforts are failed. let them go and just have faith in God. stay calm and creative. Just think that your life's objective is not to find friends but to discover yourself. and if you find him/her back ever in your life, try to accept as before.
6. Just read Bhagwatgeeta... You are not body, you are a soul and this life is meant for some purpose. All relationships would meet an end. You ll again take birth and find random people again.
7. Free flow life: just think how beautiful this world is from OUTSIDE...dont indulge in this...this world may be a hell... and heaven and hell is how you perceive.
   
   .........continue...